I've decided to reply wife with the following:

Hi dear,

I have no intention to file for separation or divorce. I do not believe that divorce is the way out. However, I do understand that you feel that it is your only option and you're feeling hurt. I'm sorry to hear that but I respect that this is your decision and i understand how you're feeling now.

I wish to work on my new marriage and not the old marriage we had. If i had to do it all over again, i would do it in another way.

I do not intend to sell our house. I intend to live in it and you're welcome to stay when you're willing to work on our marriage. I'll be paying off the loan of the house. The house proceeds will be split according to the contribution of the house loan.


M30 W26
BD 16 March 2013
M1