You know, in reading other people's threads here, I have realized that I've been lucky (so far) in one aspect : H has never once had harsh words for me, or blamed me for anything, or been nasty to me. Doesn't mean he hasn't thought those things, but he's never been ugly to me. The worst that he has done is pulling away and distancing. He has had harsh words for himself - the last time we saw each other, he told me that he didn't feel good about himself, and that he didn't think he was a good person. He just seems extremely confused and depressed right now, and while this whole situation has made me feel angry, hurt and frustrated, H's demeanor right now just makes me feel sad for him.
Now, a question for the panel : What, if anything, do I tell H about S's depression? I feel that, as S's father, he should be made aware of the problems S is having right now. Also, he might get angry if I don't inform him of something this important. But, I also know that, in the state he's in right now, he doesn't want to deal with family problems, and this might push him further into the tunnel.
: What, if anything, do I tell H about S's depression? I feel that, as S's father, he should be made aware of the problems S is having right now. Also, he might get angry if I don't inform him of something this important. But, I also know that, in the state he's in right now, he doesn't want to deal with family problems, and this might push him further into the tunnel.
