No one said you had to "validate" her decision. She is just going to do what she wants and has told you explicitely what she wants and what she intends to do.
No one said your D did it. But if your W "planted" it, AND you react to it as strongly as you did, that shows insecurity which is what she has accused you of.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
