Hi Luke,

WAW has been on meds for many years on & off. It started with abusive behaviour & affairs by her 1st husband.
This resulted in her being depressed & insecure & onto the meds, I made it a mission of mine to give her a feeling of security & of being wanted & loved, which I did for a long time & got her off them, unfortunately I let all this slip in the last couple of years hence WAW & she is back on the meds (she told me last week). Good idea on the book but maybe I'll tell her a bit later as she would think I'm trying to control her indirectly at present.

Thanks again


Me 50
W 46
Stepson 16
Together 6yr, Married 3yr
Known each other 20yr
ILYBNILWY Jul 13
Found out about affair Jul 13
Left Marital home Jul 13