Compassion for OP

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I'm not sure anyone ever forgives the orher person. Yoi forgive your ex spouse, because you need to be able to have some sort of a normal life whatever that looks like. But why do you need to forgive the OP?..

To me that seems like giving them too must respect even after they took an active part in ruining your kids normal life. Not happening soon.

My father in law finally saw the man who took my mother in law away from her family. It was after 19 years, and he said he still had to hold back from beating his a$$.