Ok, so I got thru a day of "not" bringing up the fact that H was out doing who knows before he came home at 3am. It was not easy! Let it go, let it all go!
Good for you, A. Because what would have been accomplished if you said anything? He would have lied or not lied. And either way, you would have gotten upset. And round and round you go.
I have blocked all calls from EAs rant! I have also hooked the house phone back up, it's also blocked from her, but now I'm not blocking him from using it!
Sweetie, you are not his mother. You can block that phone, but, there are plenty of other phones. And good for you from blocking her. Doesnt serve you well to hear from her, right?
I know, have always none, but am now accepting, that nothing I have done has changed anything. There is no magic stone for me to continue looking under for the one answer.
No, it hasnt changed anything. You know why? Because it is his journey, his crisis. You cant fix him. No matter how hard you try. Gotta be him.
My h has said the one thing I did do with all of my "standing in his way" was stop him from going to far, he claims to have been haunted by me from doing something to outrages. Idk what that means but I am have stopped, stopping him.
I think the "standing in his way" comment is very telling. He is screaming for you to let him figure this out. Your job is to get out of the way and let him. As far as whatever else he is insinuating, that it just nonsense talk from him.
