Hi All, as always I really appreciate your replies. Those resources help me understand more about my current situation.

I have one more question here. Now H always travels to meet the OW but never let me know his traveling dates in advance. He informed me two or three days before he is gone, and usually he will be gone all the weekend or even longer. And he never let me knew where he was. Should I set some boundries for this issue? Because I think we both need to arrange our time and coopreate to take care of kids and do things for ourself.

Thank you for your inputs.


M 18 yrs
5 & 7 yrs old kids
H DB in 4/2013
H moved out in 11/2013