Thanks again F. I am really looking forward to going back to the city. My plans, goals and GAL. Even simple things like fixing the house up, will do wonders. But most importantly, the GAL will be getting out with people.
In a way the W probably can keep ignoring me: the house is owned mostly by the bank, so selling it at this time is a loss (with the house prices being down), very little equity. She is comfortable about mortgage payments since I am doing them all. And since she doesn't want any of the furniture or other belongings, what is she missing?
She literally has walked away from it all, without it seems, a care about any of it.
She gets to talk and see the boys, and I believe her interactions is the same as before BD. She is living her life the way she wants to be, or so it seems.
It will be me that most probably will have to force the issue of paying for the mortgage or splitting the assets. And I think she knows that and is playing that card.
Again I could simple be mindreading about it all. Still it will be good to speak to the coach, especially with my new attitude and/or less emotion in the sitch.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
