Ok I forgave ex and OW a while back but that does not mean I have warm and fuzzy feelings about them. I would look at this gal's apology with several grains of salt because, gee, she has a book she is trying to sell. Ulterior motive is flashing in big red neon lights for me.

I talked quite a bit to a woman on Infidelity shortly after I found this site. It was my home for a couple of years. It took a lot for me to talk to her and get her side of the story. She was genuine and she was working to save her marriage. We became friends. So I hope I am not seen as being heartless here.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory