Thanks HWA, would be nice to know what they have to say cause i'm confused about it. I understand As' point about peeking out a little occassionally to not let them put u out of their mind completely. But, then you also hear how u should stay n/c and see if they will initiate contact.
Whatever the decision, like you we all have to move forward regardless. Something I am feeling better and better about. Hopefully in another 6 months (a year in)should things remain the same I wont be as concerned about "peeking out" or not....
And my move back to the great smoky mountains of tennessee is also fast approching.........yeaaaaa