2old, I will be having a talk with the DB coach this Monday. Will put up any options I have been given with regards to both N/C for how long and to peek out or not, and also how to deal/cope with distance away. Remember I move nearly 1000 klms away in 8 weeks time. No options, it is happening. She will be staying here for at least 1 more year minimu. No options for her either.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.