If you are anything like me, every time you think you've had enough, it was not the end yet. Maybe you need to truly exhaust yourself before giving in and giving up.
I think like in my stitch, you know that your H is not being himself and that's what keeps us hooked -- the memory of the man they can be, because they once wore. A part of you just want to shake him to his senses, right? He may come to it, sooner or later, and I think most of them do. The question is, will we still be willing to work on things when they do? The answer I have been giving myself is, one day at a time... Actually, better yet, one hour at a time, because days are long.
Meanwhile, if there's anything else in my life that needs attention, that's where I will try to go to. Besides your kids and your work, which you surely also focus on, is there any other area of your life that has been neglected?
To me is my dream to be a writer and I'm considering finishing a novel I put off forever, now that I'm alone in my room at night and can't sleep.
