He's not 'in love' with me

[CallaghanClown]

You seem to be handling things well.
Your sitch kind of reminds me of the book "this is not the story you think it is, a season of unlikely happiness" by Laura Munson....you may want to check that out if you have the time.

Continue to focus on you and the kids. Keep up a positive attitude. All the best to you!

Thanks Mimi I'll look that out.

I'm not handling things so well today, but like the beautiful swan I am, you'd never know from the outside.

I now have a new found empathy for ever woman that this has happened to before. I always thought there must be something really wrong in the relationship for this to happen. That you had to be totally stupid no not see it coming.....nope, I was stupid for judging others with no understanding of their situation.

I'm wrestling in my head today with one question.....how long do you wait?

I'm highly sexed and can't imagine waiting a year or more for him to come back. However I've not been single since I've been 15, I think it's high time I took some time out and enjoyed my own company.