So, my husband and I don't have any kids and there is no reason for us to really be in contact for anything. I have mail piled up at the house for him, insurance card, a check he needs to sign etc.. He didn't tell me what his new address is, and said that he would "tell me when he's ready" and that "stalking won't help us" which I do agree with. Well, I haven't asked for it since he left.
I was considering giving him a call and just telling him I have some mail for him and keep things light and not mention R talks at all. But, the fear of being rejected keeps scaring me back into staying dark.
When the bomb was dropped on me, I acted as any LBS would and got extremely emotional, looked pitiful, couldn't control my tears, etc etc.. So I know this is mindreading, but I have a feeling that he is avoiding talking with me because he thinks the first thing I'll do is bring up talks about our relationship and he will feel pressured again.
Its just hard to show someone that you've grown and changed if you don't speak to them at all. Neither of us ever post anything on facebook, in fact I've been avoiding it altogether.
I just feel stuck and like time is at a standstill.
Me: 31 H: 32 Married 10 years, together 11 No kids H moved out to an apt 8-3-13
Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis
