WR, I am very sorry to hear what has happened. Cry, scream do whatever you need to do to get through this latest shock. Once you've found your balance again, find that business hat and put it on. It's time to get tough and ensure that you and your boys are taken care of.
It's always seems like the lbs gets served around a holiday. Now, it makes sense that you weren't advised of his surgery. He didn't want to have to look you in the face, knowing you would be getting those papers this week. What a coward.
Don't contact him about the papers. In fact, I would be very quiet about them. I'm sure he's expecting you to ring him up or text him about them. WR, do a 180 and remain still. Work w/your lawyer to get the ball rolling on what you need for child support, etc.
I'm sending you positive vibes. Please come here to vent. That's what we are here for. Do not vent to him.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
