P.S. Don't go dark on us, we have an investment helping you in your sitch now. lol
You mentioned a C, I highly recommend IC for yourself, especially if your health insurance covers it. It can be some of the best co-pay money you'll spend. I went probably 50 times during our sitch and learned so much about myself, and human nature in general.
I haven't been in 4-5 months and need to make it a priority to get back. I'd like to go once a month for a "tune up"
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012