Yep I agree with the other two, when I read that I cringed as well. It's like a little jab.

In fact, I wouldn't remind her that she's in control. Show her that YOU are are in control of YOU. And you did that up until the last sentence.

You need to show that you are fine and moving on, reinventing Jon and not just waiting around for her next move. Not only do you need to be showing that game face, but you must be LIVING that way as well.

Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012