Like Snodderly has told me time and time again, sit back and still and little by little more and more will be revealed.
I can see now that H's and OW's relationship is not all he makes it out to be. Not that it matters, but it helps me see the bigger picture and also shows me how damaged H really is to be so enamored with this woman. And now I see her issues as well. Match made in heaven? I should say not.
It doesn't make a difference in what I do or don't do with my life, but it helps me detach even more. H's life certainly is not a bed of roses, nor will it ever be. Drama will continue to follow him and karma is starting to do her job. Now I sit back with my popcorn and watch. I think I already know how this is going to end.
Thank you, everyone, on this board for encouraging me. I am starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel and I am starting to see the forest for the trees. I think it will be even easier to drop the rope more now.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
