I hope so Angela. Like I said it kind of scares me too, but I cannot try to guess why he is in a good mood or treating me nicely. That WILL drive me crazy if I do that.
Funny you mentioned the wall and bricks coming down, that has been a vision in my head for the past week! Must be our ESP DB connection.
No worries at all about the question you asked. It did suck that he moved to other bedroom so quickly, but he was in complete I am done mode when he did that, so he had to make it appear as so. He was emotionally gone. And that confirmed my thought that he was actually being physical with AW. Sometimes it's ok because now at least I have my own space I can retreat to if needed.
Today started off okay, I always turn my light on in my bedroom in the morning, so my S knows I'm up and can say goodbye before he leaves for school. My H had not been saying goodbye in the morning before he left, but today, he perched on the 1st stair landing and peered into my bedroom and said 'Goodbye, have a good day'. I jumped up and said 'Ok you have a good one too'. Wee positives.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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