Stop trying to read motive when unless she tells you what her motive is you will never now.

Take if for what it is, a kind gesture related to a traumatic situation that you both shared. No more, no less.

Maybe your response could be: "Interesting, thanks for sending the article." (but only if that's how you feel)


Don't try to figure out how she's feeling, figure out how YOU'RE feeling.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss