I thank the universe that my H does not call me names or get very vicious. I'm not sure I could handle that. I think it is the best decision when that happens to let go because they aren't themselves. At least not the person you knew, nor the person they can be, they are stuck. I'm sorry he was so mean to you, that is uncalled for. I think you did the best thing and not respond to his ugliness. It will get him thinking 'well why didn't she get mad or react'. This gives him no reason to find fault with you when you don't react. That is what they are looking for, because of their guilt and bad decisions.
Angela, my friend, you are doing well. Getting stronger every day.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
