Just a little bit more time to think about above comments. In some ways I am scared/worried about the cheeseless tunnels. While I know where I am in the sitch isn't a great place, in someways it feels better than trying to contact her and get nothing in return. It's the getting used to no expectations that is the normal now, but if I start to text, then I will start to get my expectations up.
If that makes sense.
Its a bit like: the devil I do, the devil I don't
I can completely relate to this! My husband moved out in the beginning of Aug and the only communication we've had is when I message him. We have talked 3 times online and that's it. Haven't heard a word from him from text/ phone/ etc. We don't have any kids so there's really no pressing issues that we need to be in contact for.
When I think about it, I think for me its the fear of being rejected if I try to call or text and don't get a reply that keeps me dark. It would feel like a fresh wound to heal and I'm already trying to protect my heart from being destroyed even further.
Me: 31 H: 32 Married 10 years, together 11 No kids H moved out to an apt 8-3-13
Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis
