Don't respond to her because she's going to set you up w/another court order. She has no control over him either, in fact she may just be egging him on and that's why he's the way he is w/you. She sounds so much like the ow I met many years ago, but you know what...they are meant to be together during this time and they are two peas in a pod right now. Nothing you say or do will change that. Your h has vilified you in order to leave and act out.

Do what you have to do to take care of you and your family. Don't rely on him for nothing because he's really so far into himself he won't care. It's all about fun and sticking it to you right now because in his mind, you are holding him back. Bottom line, the only person holding him back is himself. He will protect the ow till the end of time and she will do the same for him regardless of what the situation is.

Please be careful.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.