Unlearning conflict avoidance 7

[MrBond]

"A man does what in this situation?"

A man would stop asking others what to do and stop gardening for his W.

"What would you say to my W if she asks tomorrow?"

It doesn't matter what I would say. It's obvious you want to tell her that while she wants a D, you don't so you will not help her get it. But you will not stop her because you won't control her actions. That's what you want to do, so do it.

If not, then do what YOU want to do. Stop asking and start doing. This is why you blew your chance with the physical touch. You kept debating it so much that you actually talked yourself out of it.