hi Abbey, Ive not read your entire thread, but just wanted to share...my h moved out and moved back in 3 times. I allowed it. I just wanted so bad for the pain to go away. what I found is h has not yet been willing to work. I know too he is sad. I know he is confused. but, it has not been enough for him to make any changes. his behavior continues.
I got the same story about "at his age" wanting to do what he wants to do.
Give it lots of thought.I wish I would have insisted on taking it more slow and joint C.


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13