"T's thought was that touch is what my W wants (something like 'gather your woman in your arms, her secret craving') and that it is a way for me to express my love for her. "
You do understand that this is what we suggested to you over a year ago and you were too afraid to. The problem is that at that time, she was practically asking for it, but now that window of opportunity has closed.
She sees you as a cuckold and incidentally so does your D. They both feel they can walk all over you, and quite honestly you talk about flowers A LOT which isn't what your W wants in a man. She tells you to do things that a hired butler would do.
IMHO I would not touch her. She's made that VERY clear right now. But you don't have anything to lose, I guess. I would actually start going out with someone else before she does to show that you are a masculine man. And start acting like it.
Just my 2 cents.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
