Oh, and jbm, I'm glad to hear that you and H are doing well! I read your story, and you've had a crazy ride, and put in a lot of hard work.
If you all don't see these replies for a few days, I apologize. I'm checking in and replying everyday, but still new and on moderation. It's taking a crazy long time for my posts to show up - some of them have taken 4 or 5 days!