Thanks, everyone, for the encouragement! I'm new at all this, and still feeling my way around, ya know? H definitely seems to be pushing and pulling. He will go for days without calling, then he calls out of the blue and wants to see us, then I won't hear from him again for days...wash, rinse, repeat.
jbm: I hate to leave my mom hanging like that, but I can try. She is one of the few people that knows everything that's going on (and has been my rock), so I know she will be understanding. H didn't mention anything about Christmas when we talked Sunday, and I'm sure he hasn't forgotten that I asked. So you're probably right, and he just doesn't want to think about it.
