Callaghan, you just described my H. He is also suicidal and its awful how those guys don't take into consideration how this whole MLC affects the little ones. They are strangers, aren't they? My H is an impostor as well. I don't know this man.
But let me tell you something: ever since I started to detach and not let my feelings take over every interaction, I feel my self esteem go up and feel more sane and serene. I highly recommend. Whether we will get our H's back, or the men that we knew, back, I'm not sure, but the feeling of peace is priceless.
