Sounds like your H is definitely thinking about stuff, in a good way! Progress! Yay!

The Wall has to come down brick by brick...seems like H is starting to pull the bricks down. Stay patient and strong, my friend.

Sorry about the separate bedroom question on my thread. I'm just super confused in my sitch because of the whole ML thing. Lol.

Thanks for your honesty and being willing to answer my question. That must really hurt that your H did that... and I'm so sorry for that.