Angela, I didn't decide to have separate bedrooms, my H just moved his stuff out. If he thought you should still share a room I would consider that a bonus. He hasn't thought this through and it seems like he is waffling on you big time. He only asked about the mediation because he feels like after what he's done he has to follow through. Trust me, he has not made a firm decision. He is testing you. Like Jon and JBM said, say nothing now. Hold strong my friend.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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