I promise to give you an update when i am able to get a few minutes to spare. I will have to think about what has been happening....i feel a lot better within myself at least.
@Fartiltre, what you suggest is in line with what i have read. I simply don't seem to be able to ignore our anniversary. I am going to go and buy a card and chocolates. That seems to be a good compromise. I suppose that i don't have to actually give her the card and chocolates. I will feel better for having bought them though. It just seems so rude to ignore today....just a sentimental bloke i suppose.
Me: 49 W: 47 M: 19 T: 25 Son:19 Dau:13 Son:6 BD: Aug: 2012 Separated - same house: May, 2013 Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013 W looking to move out: January 2014 Dau says go, I move out: June 2014