Sorry your trip got cancelled...glad you still made the best of the time. Next time your H accuses you, maybe you can respond "H, when you say ______________ , it makes me feel like you don't trust me and that really hurts my feelings." and see how he responds.
As far as counsuling....maybe in time you can find someone you can go to your own for a few weeks, who is solution-based, and let them know your goals....once you're comfortable with them/feel they are the right match, you can ask H to join.
Its really interesting that he seems to not trust you, maybe its his own guilt that makes him paranoid?
Keep up the great progress, enjoy your week!
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
