Depending on where you are in your situation it could have a positive or negative effect. Unless you are aiming for totally dark, sending random stuff does not have the same effect as pursuing ... (I know some in here would call this pursuing, but I believe in many cases it is not) There was a forum in the texting program I did, so I saw lots of outcomes from different kinds of texts.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)