The last time my H requested a mediator, he wanted me to do the dirty work and initiate it! then weeks later when I still hadn't done anything he asked me again.
I replied"This has come up suddenly and I still have a lot to think about.I'm not ready for this yet." It seemed to make him back off for a while.
I'm so sorry, I know it hurts terribly.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
