wh, Please be careful w/what you discuss w/your sil. Usually blood is thicker than water and when a sibling or friend tells you things about what your h is or isn't doing, as well as the ow's activities, they generally carry the mail right back. They don't mean to do it, but there is an old saying that I firmly believe in and it is "a dog that brings a bone will carry one". Just be careful what you discuss w/her. Okay?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
