Oh, and I got letters from my wife too, listing all of the bad things I had done in the M. It felt, at the time, like she was building her case for D. I took those letters as things to improve upon, but also realized it was trumped up through her fog to make a comparison between me (all bad) and the OM (all good).
I say this so you don't panic. You've actually got much more time than you think. Just don't make the mistakes of the past and sit idle during this time. Use it to your advantage. If you do the wrong things, you can quite literally drive her out of your home.
