NEW LIFE / NEW ME - TAKING OFF!

[Fartiltre]

I don't recall MWD stating her VP about it in her DR book

Me neither. I was only referring to what I read in here.

It can be nice without it being romantic, can't it?

Definitely!


Few days or weeks after BD W told me that I should feel free to date or get some sex. As I have written before I was pursuing her for sex and the further away I come from BD and the clearer my mind get I believe that this was a major thing to her. I also remember her stating/spewing “I can’t believe you have gone so long without”

I think I understand my own behavior now! In short the case was that we have been in trouble for a long time and at last the only thing that was back was us ML (which it wasn’t – just boring sex! –especially for W)
I was clinging to the ML because that was all that was left!
When things turned all bad at last I rejected her - passive aggressive little boy!

I am writing this because if this is a major issue to W it might be wrong going on a “light” date – what your opinion?

At the same time I really don’t care that much. If a nice woman whom I think I can enjoy an evening with suddenly comes by – I will eat dinner with her! I haven’t planned on seeking it in anyway.

If you want to be technical, you aren't legally M. Which, btw, I've been meaning to ask you...why didn't you M her?

25mlc asked me this a long time ago and I answered:

I haven’t got a decent answer to this question! I have thought about it a million times during the last years but haven’t acted! At this moment I feel regrets on this behalf but at the same time I do not think it would have saved anything!

It’s like every time I thought about purposing some crap (Fathers dead, premature birth, financials, bankruptcy, illness – long list) came up and gave us bad times. I also think that the fact that I already divorced once kept me from purposing. It’s properly several things playing together.
If R ever happens and things work out this is something I will remedy

Okay, about the Christmas thing....I was really hoping LTH, Labug or Advina would jump in and help with the wording. They are much better than I am.

I hope they will look in om me then. If I get a good chance I will bring it up but otherwise I will hold the horses a week or two.

Do your kids do anything on Halloween?

Halloween isn’t that big here! We do something similar but it’s in February.