I am going to our 1st MC tonight and one thing he (therapist) he is my IC told me is that he will suggest that we try taking the really hard stuff (OM) for me and keep it to only talking about it in his office, so maybe that is something you might look at?
I'll chime back later.
Oh yes I agree 340% to check lubthe hub, very insightful!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy