AS, I have felt that the MWD books view on trying something different is about due. You are right about sending her a text, something a little bit better than "I miss you heaps".
Again, is going dark and n/c, helping me, even if very slowly?
F, funny you should say wait for the party to be over. That's exactly what I was going to do with the DB coach. Wait and see what the party brings and go from there. I still don't even know if the W is going to the party or not. Remember for us to go, we would have to fly there, I bought tickets for me.
Remember also everyone, in 8 weeks time I will be moving over 1000klms away from the W, and she hasn't even asked whether I got a transfer or not. Not to mention, me moving could be the best thing for her and her EA/PA friend?
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
