I haven't retained one, but I did take advantage of a free 30 minute consultation from a partner attorney at A.D.A.M. (American Divorce Association for Men). They offer a 1 hour case evaluation for $95. I guess I should probably do that.
Basically, he said that I would need to file for divorce in order to put exparte orders in place, preventing W wife removing property or children from home until formal terms were decided. That's not really something I want to do.
Vince B M=10 yrs T=13 yrs M45 / H 44 2 Boys 5 & 8 D Day: 7/16/13