. . . At this point, my thought is that if she doesn't rush into filing and we are peacfully cohabitating, I will be able to continue my DBing and 180's along with GAL activities . . .
My recommendation would be for you to "180" your 180s at this point. A strong, no-nonsense legal + financial + relational stance right now MIGHT be your last best shot at this, DD.
and "x 5" because she now knows that you knew all along, and yet played nice with her to try to win her back.
