Is it too late?

[trueblue1]

Hi All,

Another quick update & a small conundrum you may be able to hep with as i am stumped!

Communication with WAW is still intermittent, I'm silent but she will ring approx every 72 hours, I dont read a lot into this as maybe she is just being civil in case she needs financial support again but she does only seem to ring with problems that she is facing. I really feel like saying `bet the OM doesnt get the `lifes little problems calls' but Ive held back on that one. All calls are amicable & I always finish with `thanks for ringing, its nice to hear from you'.

Now for the conundrum...Facebook was historically a problem between us. One of my ex girlfriends was still a facebook friend (only facebook contact was happy birthday or christmas, no more, no less) which made WAW insanely jealous & she told me to cut her from my contacts. I said this was unfair & this was trying to control me & she had nothing to be jealous about. So, like an idiot, I `unfriended' my wife a couple of years ago & despite her requests I refused to put her back on. Simple fact is I very rarely even look at facebook so I didnt see a problem. Of course I did when the bomb dropped & became a part of the whole why I'm a bad husband scenario.

To cut to the chase, yesterday my facebook account shows a friend request...from WAW! Do I accept? It would be a 180! I have nothing to hide on there, I do not make comments, or recieve anything that would cause a problem, but, old ex is still a friend as is the new girl who I have recently met (there are no facebook communications between any of us, just show as friends). Accept WAW or not, she will check out who my friends are & if the past is anything to go by it may make her jealous, I dont know!

Quick update on the new girl I have met, we had a drink at the weekend but no more than that, the attraction is flattering to say the least but I am sure, deep down, I am not ready for another relationship until Ive truly given up on my marriage,

Thanks for any advice