I think the difference is W is confused about how she FEELS. I'm confused about what to DO.
When I do go dim, W pursues me. Obviously, she is "pursuing" right now. I guess my plan is to still stay very dim; one thing I know is that W needs to drive the conversation and the direction, and I need to just go along for the ride. If this is HER idea, we stand a much better chance of success.
