I have screen shot your reply along with a few others! I have to ask tho, is it right that I should bring up the M word?
You're not supposed to initiate R, M or D convos. I only offered that because you said that despite the advice, you were going to have that convo with her anyway. I would recommend just not having the convo at all, because like I said earlier I don't think you're going to like her responses. But maybe you need to hear it to help you detach.