What are your thoughts on the fact such as in my sitch, W is living 900 miles from me so there is no chance of seeing each other in person.
Well that makes things difficult for sure. I remember reading an old sitch on here where a woman was separated from her H who was overseas, and she asked the same questions about how she could show him 180's and PMA when they never saw each other. If I recall, I think she was told just to keep up her GAL and PMA and word would get back to him through the grapevine. They did end up reconciling and she credited her DB'ing, so it can work even long-distance.
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Still cant say MLC or WAW for certain but W does seem willing to just move on without any discussion. I still have a hard time dealing with that...
There are some things in life that we will never get satisfactory answers for. If you think about it, is there anything your W could tell you that would bring you peace about her leaving you? Probably not, because your response would be "but that can be fixed!!" But we fix those things and they still don't want to come back, so then we want to know "why" again, and so it continues. I know it's not easy, but we have to accept things as they are and quit asking why.
