Mimi. That's a great help thank you.

I've had reasons why she BD in dribs and drabs the one that hit me was she felt lonely frown this would tie up with a poss EA that I suspect she was having before BD although she totally denies the EA (she doesn't even think EA's exists!)

Even now she mentions she's lonely at home and even more so when the kids are in bed. She has said a couple of times I'm more than welcome to go round and visit the kids (not reading into things but poss indirectly she's reaching out for company??) as yet I haven't taken her up on her offer as I know if I went round I'd want to cling on to her like grim death!

I think my problem is I see/hear things from my W in a Negative way (so I don't get hurt maybe?) but when I think about it and add up all the little gestures/offers (not many mind) from W maybe I've been missing a trick??

Thanks again tho smile

M - 37 W - 35
T - 11 M - 5.5
SD13 D10 S4
ILYBINILWY 15 Oct '12
Moved out 7 Dec 12
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