She stated that she knew I was aware of it because she knew I was going through her texts and emails.
DD,
This changes everything, and if you'll recall this is precisely what I was afraid of.
I'll need to think about this. You need to first and foremost fully protect yourself legally and financially. What you might be able to do to save your marriage now comes with a huge task of re-establishing ATTRACTION. I'm NOT trying to pour salt in your wounds, but think now of all of your words and actions over the past several months from YOUR WIFE'S eyes, and her KNOWING THAT YOU KNOW.
It's a game-changer, and it will affect what advice I would give you going forward.
In the meantime, not fake-syrupy-happy, and not cold/pouty/distant. You should be cordial and BUSINESSLIKE, with an overall air of "This isn't what I chose, but I realize I"ll be okay" and an air of MYSTERY about you.
