I have not lived a life of my own. I was ever so cautious to live the one that was available to me through my h.... created on his terms. So, now seeking my own time causes a struggle within. I am learning. I feel guilty, alot.
I agree.. if H wants me he should want ME... the real me. All of me (whoever I am, whomever I am turning into).
From here on out I will "speak back, walk out on poor treatment, push back, etc."
I have the right to be respected!
You do too Luke!!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)