Second MLC?? Is that possible?

[Pudmuddle]

I am doing okay. Although I would like to save the marriage, telling him to move on seems to have helped me get to a stage of being able to accept that he may just do that. I am also doing a better job of remaining calm and not jumping at any little sign that he may be taking peeks out of the fog. In some respects I am glad he is half a world away. Although I think about all this a lot, I am not in the eye of the storm and am grateful that there isn't daily drama here at home.

I admire you for being able to do this. I wonder if I will ever be able to trust my H again too. I've realized now that when someone you love is seriously messed up and you've offered your all to help them and they don't want it - there is nothing more you can do, but let them go. Show unconditional love by letting them go to help themselves. Thank you 2t2m for your guiding strength.